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It's 2025, but some men are still grossly uninformed about the intricacies of womanhood. When it comes to periods, for example, only 41% of men can correctly identify what exactly menstruation is, according to a study by women's healthcare brand INTIMINA and YouGov. Yet periods aren't the only thing some men are clueless about.

The subreddit "Not How Girls Work" collects the most infuriating, embarrassing, and ridiculous takes that men online have had about women. Sound kind of misogynistic? Probably because it is. So, arm yourself with patience, Pandas, because these posts might not be for you if you have a short fuse.

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#1

I Get This Is A Kink But This Is No Way To Respond To Something Like This!!!

Screenshot of a disturbing message revealing a misogynist's twisted behavior and a much-needed reality check.

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    Psa: Yes We All Have And The Worst Part Is How Young This Happens

    Tweet by Mohamad Safa sharing a powerful message about misogyny and women’s experiences with men, highlighting reality check moments.

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    Black Cat
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All women have a scary story about a man, single or not. That's why we don't trust them, duh.

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    If your blood pressure rises as you scroll through these screenshots, take solace in the fact that you're not alone. Sadly, misogyny is quite on the rise online at the moment. A recent report by UN Women has found that online content drives backlash against feminism and promotes retrograde and misogynistic ideas about men's and women's roles in society.

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    But online spaces aren't the only place where women's rights are experiencing a setback. In 2022, the U.S. Supreme Court overturned Roe v. Wade, which protected the right to abortion. Several European countries decided to pull out of the Istanbul Convention, a treaty on gender-based violence.

    #4

    Or Maybe Women’s Clothes Don’t Have Front Pockets…

    Woman with phone in back pocket, highlighting a sarcastic response to misogynists expecting applause but getting a reality check.

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    Being Born A Woman In This World Is Horrific

    Young woman holding a sign highlighting a common response to sharing childhood abuse, addressing misogynist attitudes.

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    Tobias Reaper
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i will use that same phrase when i hit the dude with a bat all i did was touch him with a bit of wood

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    Mexico and Central America are experiencing violent attacks against women's rights defenders and activists. Costa Rican feminist activist Lydia Alpizar told UN News that we're seeing a surge of attacks against feminists working on gender-based violence all over the world.

    In Nicaragua, political prisoners include women, human rights defenders like Kenia Hernandez are imprisoned in Mexico, and so are women who protest for protection of nature in El Salvador. According to Alpizar, governments are shifting their focus "on gender equality to a broader focus on families and children," and that's how women's issues get sidelined.

    #9

    Feel Like This Fits Here

    Woman raising arms on beach with text about marriage pressure and women choosing to stay single or childfree, addressing misogynists.

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    Earonn -
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep, that old joke of men being "dragged" into marriage. With all the "help me" jokes at weddings. And as soon as we say "Okay, be free" - they try to manipulate us again by first telling us we would be unhappy on our own, and when that didn't happen, now there's attempts to force us to marry by making life difficult for women.

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    The deputy head of the research and data team at UN Women, Laura Turquet, also notes that the "manosphere" spaces online make it easier for misinformation and misogynistic sentiments to spread.

    The 'manosphere,' according to her, is "an online ecosystem [of] extreme and outdated ideas, particularly about violence against women, but also related to a very narrow kind of idea of masculinity."

    #10

    How Dare You Eat?

    Text message screenshot showing a misogynistic rant criticizing a woman’s eating habits, fitting the misogynists reality check theme.

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    Karri Berkowitz
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She are the whole SALAD, oh yeah that’s got fat girl vibes all over it. SMH I can’t believe this guy is single lol. What a d****e.

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    In such spaces, 'feminism' has become quite a dirty word. Even young men's attitudes reflect that, as 16% of Gen Z men in the UK say that feminism has done more harm than good. Only 13% of UK men aged 60 and older hold the same belief. Experts say that this trend is worrying because usually, younger generations are more receptive to social change.

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    #14

    This Was About The 10 Year Old Girl Who Had To Go To Another State To Get An Ab*rtion

    Comment defending pregnancy safety, reflecting misogynists expecting applause but receiving reality checks instead.

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    Let's face it, when we think of a person having regressive, misogynistic views, we probably have an image of a boomer in our minds. But the director of the Global Institute for Women's Leadership at King's College London, Professor Rosie Campbell, told The Guardian that this is because Gen Z is the first generation to derive most of their information from social media.

    #17

    Man Wonders If R*pe Victims Can Heal Their Trauma By Being Forced To Give Birth To Their R*pist's Child Under An Article About A 13 Y.o. Girl

    Tweet discussion on abortion and trauma with images of a medical ultrasound and anti-abortion protest signs.

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    lazyblackcat_779
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Obviously! An ever-present, living reminder of past trauma DEFINITELY helps victims recover faster! /s

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    "There has been a zeitgeist where young women feel they can own the idea of feminist identity … [Young men] hear a lot about girl power but don't, at this stage in their lives, understand the inequalities that we know are in the world when you hit work and childcare," Campbell explained.

    #19

    So Now We Cant Tell The Difference Between Peeing And Pooping?

    Screenshot of social media comments showing misogynistic views receiving critical reality checks.

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    The UK government is trying to balance the misinformation and misogynistic content many young men see online. Last year, the Labour Party planned to start training young male mentors to counterbalance the negativity many young men are exposed to online.

    #22

    Weirdos S*xualizing A Random Woman For No Apparent Reason

    Woman standing confidently in front of a whiteboard in a classroom, highlighting moments misogynists got a reality check.

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    #24

    Men Are Too Stupid To Realize It Or Women Are Too Smart?

    Venn diagram showing gender benefits in relationships highlighting differences and shared emotional support between men and women.

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    UndertaleLover (She/Her)
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ah yes. no woman in history has ever paid for a dinner or gifts or given attention to their partner. every single time someone has opened a door for me, it has always been a man. also, women are never treated like they are wrong for feeling certain ways. i'm glad we cleared all this up.

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    Minister for Women and Equalities of the United Kingdom, Bridget Philippson, told the Guardian that it's important to educate boys from a young age. "It also has to be young men and young women alike; we can't just leave it to young women to call out unacceptable behaviours or report issues that are happening."

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    "It's really powerful if men all step in and make clear that kind of sexist or misogynistic behaviour is not acceptable, and they don't tolerate it either."

    #25

    Aita For Calling My Friend An Idiot For Waiting A Maternity Test?

    Reddit thread showing users giving a reality check to a misogynist’s flawed theory about pregnancy and menstrual cycles.

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    Mreoww
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now we telepathically transmit our eggs to each other and make each other pregnant?

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    #27

    Bombastic Side Eye

    Screenshot of a misogynist comment with a scientific image highlighting breakthroughs in artificial uterus technology.

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    Jo Firth
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    1 week ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Would love to see how this guy feels when he has to take care of a child with no help at all - probably what the mother of his children would be expected to do.

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    The situation in the U.S. is no better, either. After the 2024 election, researchers reported a surge in certain worrying rhetoric used on the social platform X. The Institute for Strategic Dialogue reports they noticed a 4,600% increase in "Your body, my choice" and "Get back in the kitchen."

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    #28

    Saw This On My Feed And Can't Stop Wondering About What Is Keeping Them Away

    Screenshot of a misogynistic social media post expecting applause but receiving a reality check instead.

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    But which of these screenshots and hot takes did you find the most infuriating, Pandas? Do you have any good clapbacks to these misogynists? Let it rip in the comments, if you do. And if you'd like to see more men being clueless about women, check out our previous posts here and here!

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    #32

    Why Are Some Women Like This

    Reddit post discussing catcalling experiences highlighting misogynists facing a reality check on unwanted attention toward women.

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    Breadcrumb.
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The worst of the harassment I've experienced in my 36 years happend when I was a teenager. So many stalkers, men trying to get me close to their car. Adult strangers saying horrific things to me quietly in public, the butt pinches. They tend to target the weakest.

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    #33

    Clearly Someone Didn’t Understand The Movie

    Scene from a film showing a woman challenging a man’s expectations, reflecting on misogynists and reality checks.

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    J. Maxx
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What was left out of this meme was the fact that she already had all those things and didn't want a deadbeat for a partner.

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    #36

    Saw This Scrolling Instagram

    Tweet text highlighting misogynists' preference for shy women over successful career women, reflecting a reality check.

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    Lauren Caswell
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Of course you do. Easier to control on average. Shocking that you pick easier victims

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    #37

    I Hope This Guys Trolling

    Cartoon depicting gender privilege debate with a woman and man facing different obstacle courses labeled with social issues and legal challenges.

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    Jo Firth
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Perhaps if men were not such fucktards they wouldn't have all those road blocks. BTW - I love that a r**e charge, domestic violence and sexual harassment (check spelling) are considered 'problems' created by women to block men.

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    #39

    B-B-But… He Has Needs! (Tw: Miscarriages

    Online comments exposing misogynists getting reality check on insensitive behavior toward women in pain and trauma.

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    GalPalAl
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please do not engage terrorists. And don't lessen your intellect by responding to someone who needs to be castrated

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    #40

    I Love Being A Woman

    Screenshot of a controversial misogynistic post expressing negative beliefs about women’s value and aging, reflecting reality check moments.

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    Queen Boudicca
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    1 week ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, the odds are *NOT* going to be ever in his favor of outliving any women he knows.

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    #41

    What Did I Just Read? 😭

    Screenshot of a misogynistic tweet targeting a female celebrity, illustrating misogynists facing a reality check.

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    Ipetmykitteh
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ROFL! She’s successful and wealthy so she must have been born male. Ffs. It’s so dumb it’s come back around to funny.

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    #45

    How About It's Not A Competition?

    Collage showing women receiving awards and a comic illustrating a reality check on misogynists with empowering family scenes.

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    UndertaleLover (She/Her)
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh no! Two happy women! Let's pit them against each other before people start thinking that there's more than one way to be happy.

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    #48

    Reponses That Men Made To Pearl Davis’s Claim That “16 Year Olds Are Hotter Than 26 Year Olds”

    Screenshot of online comments showing a reality check on misogynists' outdated views about women and age consent.

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    #50

    “She Was Asking For It”

    Screenshot of a Twitter exchange highlighting misogynists getting a reality check on female streamers and empowerment.

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    Emilu
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    1 week ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Get👏🏽f****d👏🏽 (That was surprisingly hard to type. I'm too old for this clapping b******t.)

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    #51

    Mr “I Can’t Make Women C*m, And It’s Women’s Fault” Has Some Thoughts

    Misogynist opinion post blaming women for sexual satisfaction issues, sparking backlash and reality check responses online.

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    #53

    Her Labia Doesn’t Look Like What He Sees In P**n, Therefore Can’t Be Normal

    Reddit post discussing a relationship issue related to labiaplasty and gender expectations amid misogynist reality checks.

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    Barbara Wilcock
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are you in deepest darkest Africa? Where female mutilation is the norm. Sick basterd

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    #55

    Breaking News: Joe And Sophie Are Getting A Divorce Because He’s Shorter Than Her 🤦🏼‍♀️

    Misogynists expecting applause face reality check with celebrity divorce news and public reactions in new viral pics.

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    Mreoww
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some things are just so odd, my brain refuses to make sense of them.

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    #56

    I Too Love Being Manhandled By Tsa /S

    Cartoon showing a woman giving a reality check to a harassing misogynist man in public and later facing TSA harassment.

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    Mreoww
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    First of all, what the f**k. Second of all, it’s always a woman checking and stuff, not a man.

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    #58

    This Fits As R/Terriblefacebookmeme Too

    Two colorful birds on a branch, one appearing to scold the other, illustrating a reality check on misogynists.

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    Emilu
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Male birds are typically the more brightly coloured ones becuse they have to attract females.

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    #60

    I Have No Words For This One. I Didn't Even Dare Open The Comment Section

    Young woman delivering a blunt message on misogynists and reality checks in a casual indoor setting.

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    Queen Boudicca
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    1 week ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dude, if he's working 60 hours a week, there's no way he could handle 4 orgasms a day.

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    #61

    A Post Which Mentioned A Girl Shaving Her Butt

    Screenshot of a misogynist comment about body hair receiving a reality check in an online discussion thread.

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    Mreoww
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s so hilarious when men who’ve never seen a women up close try to explain the female body.

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    This Reply To This Obviously Fun Tweet Was 💀💀💀

    Hand holding blue plastic jar opener with peanut butter jar on countertop, highlighting a reality check on misogynists.

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    #68

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    Meme depicting dating problems with 23 year old men and 30 year old women questioning who they should date, highlighting misogynist reality check.

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    GalPalAl
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Men date younger women thinking they are naive enough to be controller and manipuated

    #69

    Does This Actually Happen? Most Women I’ve Met Have Been Anti Circumcision

    Cartoon flower expressing shock and calm, paired with text highlighting misogynists getting a reality check instead of applause.

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    #72

    Not How Friends Nor Big People Work

    Group of women outside a bar ignoring a man, paired with a comic about misogynists facing reality checks.

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    Sarah Kathrin Matsoukis
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My f****s once was protected by one of the hottest women I had ever seen. Women with integrity protect each other no matter what.

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    #75

    Literal Reddit Moment. Women Can't Post Anything With These People

    Young woman focused on pottery wheel crafting clay sculpture, a reality check moment on misogynists’ expectations.

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    #79

    I Know This Is A Joke I Just Don't Really Care

    Screenshot of a sarcastic social media post highlighting sex struggles in the 19th century with humor and reality check.

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    "Men Don't Trust Women And Women Feel Like Don't Even Need A Men Anymore"

    Screenshot of a social media post highlighting a reality check on misogynists with a strong message about women's strength.

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    Becca not Becky
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unless I am missing some context, I don't think this belongs here. He's right that women don't NEED a man, so he needs to bring more to the table if he wants a relationship.

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    #81

    Found This On Instagram

    A man comforting a woman sitting on a bed, illustrating a moment from misogynists expected applause but got reality check.

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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hahaha *her thoughts* omgoodness he is so small I didn't feel anything what am I going to do how do I get out of this one 😅

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    What

    A comic strip showing a woman giving a reality check to a man at the gym, highlighting misogynist behavior.

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