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How we think we look has some bearing on our self-image (sounds like common sense, I know) but what’s often lost is that we can actually take steps to change what we don’t like and improve what we do like. But, like most things worth doing, this can take time and improvements might seem small and insignificant in the short term unless you actually take a moment to document things.

The “Ugly Duckling” internet group is dedicated to sharing people’s most impressive and wholesome glow-up photos. So get comfortable as you scroll through, upvote your favorites and be sure to share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below.

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    The term "glow-up" refers to a dramatic transformation of one's look, self-esteem, or life in general, most times, in a positive and encouraging way. Though most commonly associated with physical change, such as improved skin, improving one's wardrobe, or losing weight, the concept of a glow-up has evolved to include personal growth, emotional enhancement, and even professional success.

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    The word entered fashion in the 2010s, specifically among young online communities, and is now a standard fixture of online culture. In essence, a glow-up is all about transformation. It is usually used to describe the move from child or teenager to adult, when one has more control over how they present themselves, their health, and general wellbeing.

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    36>26

    Before and after photos of a woman showing inspiring ugly ducklings glow-ups with noticeable weight loss and style transformation.

    I am extremely proud of how much I have grown and changed as a person. The greatest gift you can give yourself is to love yourself enough to live.

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    15 —> 37

    Before and after photos of an inspiring ugly duckling glow-up showing a dramatic transformation and increased confidence.

    Got sober this year after almost two decades of heavy drinking, subsequently dropped a lot of weight and started taking better care of myself in general; Ive been earnestly feeling myself for the first time ever. The girl in the first few pictures was so sensitive and wonderful and wanted to be so many things when she was older. I’d like to think I’ve done her proud.

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    However, glow-ups can come later in life, and are not limited to any specific age or phase. An individual can "glow up" after a break-up, through a diet regimen, or with enhanced mental health. The process might involve changing eating habits, exercise, skin care regimen, sense of style, make-up skills, or even therapy and nutrition. The unifying thread is transformation, generally framed as a kind of resurrection or fulfillment of potential.

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    2 Years Sober From O***ids (Healthier And Willing To Live Finally) 29m

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    19-25! Got Treatment For My Autoimmune Issues And Developed Love For Cool Makeup!

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    setsuriseikou
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    4 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being bullied by your own body is no joke, congrats for finding a working treatment! And those are some pro-level makeup skills!

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    #9

    18 To 27, Can’t Believe This Is Only A 9 Year Difference! From Beginning Of College And Hating Myself To Nearly Done With Law School And Kinda Think I’m Pretty Damn Awesome :)

    Before and after photos showing an inspiring ugly duckling glow-up with dramatic weight loss and style transformation.

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    Glow-up material on the internet has gone viral, driven primarily by the visual and storytelling pull of social media sites like TikTok, Instagram, YouTube, and even Twitter. There are millions of threads that include before-and-after pictures or videos, usually set to motivational songs, which create a satisfying before-and-after tale of self-reinvention.

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    From 12 And Crippled To 416 Pounds At 36 To 208lbs At 37!

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    Literally half the man I used to be! Only took 10 1/2 months. Still working on it! Lost first 50 by just changing my diet to proteins. Nuts, deli meats, grilled chicken, white rice, cheeses, crackers, quit soda, quit drinking, quit sugar. That gained me entry into the gastric bypass program because before I changed my diet I went into complete renal kidney failure.

    ...so I entered the Gastric Bypass program and at the first meeting they give you a checklist of 16 things you have to learn and be able to display and I'd already had 13 checked off. I lost so much weight so fast they were afraid if made myself anemic and anorexic...the whole point of the surgery is NOT eating as much plus ya physically CANT eat more than 3 bites afterwards.

    I started to say...gross excess skin. So for the first time in my life, I joined a gym this year and to my surprise? I DID get addicted to it!

    So if I can. PLEEEEEEASE BELIEVE in both me AND yourself...you CAN do it. Even if you're doing it out of your periphery, it's still better than the nothing you WERE doing yesterday!

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    Some of the videos are over-the-top and emotionally intense, depicting internal struggles and the work involved in change. Others are sarcastic and lighthearted, using glow-up "challenges" or trends that prompt users to share their own betterment over some period of time, e.g., "From 2016 to Now" or "High School Me vs. Now."

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    #14

    22 To 32 – Late Bloomer To Say The Least, But I'm Finally Happy With My Looks

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    Marnie
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    4 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nothing wrong with him "before". It was just a candidate and not super flattering picture. If you couldn't tell he was a good-looking guy in the before picture, then how can you see it in the after? It's the same face. (Before is better. Long hair is better. Mustache without a beard is always p o r n-tastic.)

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    It's why glow-up content is so well-liked: its aspirational value and relatability. The majority of the audience identifies their own weaknesses in the "before" and idealizes their own "after." Such content is very motivational, it presents proof that change is attainable, oftentimes by the simplest or actionable steps like drinking more water, dressing more confidently, or adopting a new habit.

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    15 To 22! Still Working On Confidence

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    Damned_Cat
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    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The first pic is not a good one and I strongly suspect this is just a case of "homely girl removes her nerdy glasses, takes down her ponytail and suddenly she's beautiful"

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    Glow-up posts and stories are usually tutorials in themselves, taking the consumer step by step through skincare regimens, wardrobe updates, or productivity habits. Influencers and everyday users both share their tips, building a self-help community.

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    However, the glow-up trend is not criticism-proof. Some argue that it can reinforce unflattering beauty ideals or force people into conformity with beauty ideals based on weight loss, Eurocentric facial features, or expensive beauty routines. The focus on looks, especially in "glow-up" montages, has the side effect of suggesting that the value is tied up with how traditionally attractive one appears. There is also concern that highly edited or posed content sets out unrealistic expectations, which causes viewers to compare themselves with filtered or selectively presented versions of other individuals' lives.

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    14 & 26. My Teeth Straightened Themselves! I Was Bullied A Lot.

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    Cathleen Cummings
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    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You were still a cute kid, who would bully that face? Sorry you had to go through that.

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    #24

    15→22!

    Side-by-side glow-up photos showing a young woman’s inspiring ugly duckling transformation and confident smile.

    I’ve spent so many years hating myself, I’m finally to a point where I’m a little happier with my appearance. 🥹 Many posts here inspired me!

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    In the midst of all this angst, though, glow-up culture endures in large part because it touches on something exceedingly human: the desire to change and be seen as our best selves. In an era of social media, where identity and image are curated and shared online, a glow-up can symbolize more than a makeover, it's a seal of survival, of growth, and of potential rebirth. Both authentic and performative, the glow-up phenomenon speaks to our collective interest in change, and the faith that, through effort and passage of time, anyone can become better.

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    #27

    17 To 23: How Far Some Self Care Can Take You :)

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    #30

    Then And Now. From 2018 With 3 Years Of Hard Work And 2 Years Maintaining 💪

    Before and after photos of inspiring ugly ducklings' glow-ups showing significant personal transformations and confidence.

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    Fire Singer
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    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well done for maintaining. That's, in my opinion, the hardest part of weight loss. Not many people (myself included) know how hard that maintenance is! So bravo for you OP! Bravo!

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    #34

    18-32. Went From Hating And Neglecting Myself To Loving And Nurturing Myself. Took A Long Time But I'm Glad To Be Here!

    Before and after photos showing an inspiring ugly duckling glow-up with a stylish haircut and makeup transformation.

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    24 To 31. Forever Grateful To My Younger Self For Making The Decisions That Made Me What I Am Now

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    #40

    18 To 25

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    Went from almost 150 lbs to 110ish, cut all my fried hair off and grew it out, and then learned how to do makeup. I don't have many pictures from back then because I was bullied and so self-conscious, I never thought I'd ever actually like my appearance. It's amazing what 7 years can do to your confidence!

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    sandii wendel
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    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She is pretty with the makeup and you can tell she would be pretty without. However, ugly comments just make you ugly. Do better!

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    #45

    Middle School (Age 12) —> Senior Year Graduation Photo (Age 18) —> Now (Age 21)

    Before and after inspirational glow-up photos of a young man showing his transformation over time.

    I’m honestly just posting for an ego boost right now, I don’t use much traditional social media (insta, facebook, snap, etc.) or else I’d post there. But I feel pretty good about my weight and appearance now especially after reconstructive eye surgery.

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    Fire Singer
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    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My favorite part of all of these transformations is seeing the happiness it's brought them. That means more than anything else.

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    #50

    18-24 (Almost 25)

    Before and after photos of a woman showcasing an inspiring ugly duckling glow-up with long dark hair and a confident smile.

    Went to emdr therapy to help with some childhood trauma, and it helped my chronic anxiety. left a toxic job and lost some weight, finally gained some self worth.

    happier than i have been since i was 14 :) mental health is everything! last few pics are me from the past 4-5 months!

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    #52

    9/10-32

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    I was very sick as a child, I had my lymph nodes and adenoids removed when I was 2 due to a serious infection from ear surgeries. Grew up depressed and anxious. It took awhile but I found my light!

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    25-30-35 And 42 These Days. Some Changes In Hairstyle, Makeup And Working Out Gave Me Confidence

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    #54

    17 Yrs Old To 23 Yrs Old

    Before and after photos showing an inspiring ugly ducklings glow-up with a major fitness transformation and muscle gain.

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    Jorie
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    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Quit the roids. They'll k**l you. Plus the muscles are very unattractive.

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    #55

    18–>24 Started Taking Care Of Myself And Figured Out My Style:)

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    Auntriarch
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    4 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good for you! I was 40 before I figured out my style. Never too late though

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    #57

    16 To 33 I Grew Eyeballs!

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    Auntriarch
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    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love those little tiny pillows under the eyes, makes you look good humoured

    #59

    13 To 16 To 24. High School Was Rough

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    Fuhleeheece
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    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people peaked in high school and are now on the downhill slide. Your trajectory is upward! Congrats!

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    13 vs. 21

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    Will post a longer comparison next year! I'm on a weight loss journey right now but still crazy how different I look now!
    I've had nothing done but considering plastic surgery when my frontal lobe develops perhaps haha

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    Julie S
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    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like the fact she went from no glasses to glasses and looks stunning with glasses. Where as the other pictures on here went the other way round glasses to no glasses.

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    17 To 32, Or The Wonders Of Facial Hair

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    21/31

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    Yes that’s a spray tan and yes I’m still that pale without (I don’t sun tan)😂

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    17 vs. 32

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    People always ask me why I straighten my hair. THIS IS WHY.

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    #72

    8>16>18>44…..to Be Fair, We Did Not Have Youtube Makeup/Skincare Tutorials In The 90’s 😂

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    15 To Now (20)! I Look So Different

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    #75

    In The Pits Of Depression And No Self Confidence (18) vs. Now (23)

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    LOL 14 / 30

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    Lowrider 56
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    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sorry if I offend anyone, im not trying to, but women with a lot of tattoos is extra attractive.